Parenting and life advice is thrown around all over the place, from the aunty at the gathering to the random Instagrammer. You feel like you're drowning in all the "do this to magically fix your entire life!" and "don't do this or else your child will be traumatized forever and you are ruined so you. might as well give up" advice. None of it makes sense. None of it makes a real lasting difference.
You read all the parenting books out there. You think you might as well get a Ph.D in parenting knowledge at this point. But what's the point? You read and read and read...
Only to end up right where you began because every "expert" took you around for a loop in a crazy corn maze.
Unlearn the nonsense
Relearn what matters
Liberate yourself
Leverage motherhood
Human centered vs industrialist approach where we are just raising children to perform
Asslamu Alaikum, I'm Noor.
An engineer and IT solutions/applications developer in another life, and a human centered design engineer, coach, homeschool mom, developmental and educational psychology geek at the present.
Back in 2017, I started hosting a support group for Muslim mothers who are invested in their children's upbringing and tarbiyah.
I opened my home and heart to women who are just like me, who struggle with the endless advice on raising children, on ways to educate children, on homeschooling resources, etc etc. I shared what I was learning and discovering on my journey, my mistakes and many insights gained from books, endless research on the wide variety of subjects and growing personal experience. We discussed seerah, lessons from the lives of the prophets and the profound wisdom in the Quran.
Since then I have been observing, learning and unlearning, chasing the many questions and ideas with childlike curiosity. This led to a growing interest and passion for learning about the nature of children and it inspired me to explore and see things without the knowledge bias that so often traps us and keeps us blind to the obvious. I have since been exploring many different subjects that intersect with Developmental Sciences and Educational Psychology. It has been a beautiful journey and it is far from over.
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Give me a lever long enough and a fulcrum on which to place, and I shall move the world.
Archimedes
In his famous quote, 'Give me a fulcrum on which to place it, and I shall move the world,' Archimedes is referring to the principles of levers and mechanical advantage. Mechanical advantage involves leverage of input to achieve a greater output. You know when you try to open a tin can with the end of a spoon, it's so much easier to open. That is mechanical advantage. If you try to open it directly, it's difficult, but then, when you use the end of a spoon that acts as a lever, it becomes way easier to open because it give you a mechanical advantage. Basically, what Archimedes was trying to say is when you place a lever in the right place, it can even move something as mighty as the Earth.
As the leader of your family, you need to put your levers in the right place.
- 1Reclaim your power
- 2Gain barakah that comes with rectification, habits, and intentions
- 3Let nature do its job: lean into and optimize the developmental process
- 4Create a nurturing, integrated, essentialist, learning environment
- 5Focusing on wisdom and developing the will rather than just knowledge
Reclaim
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Lead with Love
Your relationship with your children and your family is at the crux of everything.
Lean on Nature
Nature provides you with everything you need. You have an intuituin that you can rely on
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My whole perspective and out look on life has changed. May Allah always guide you. Ameen.
Sofia Khan
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I am a changed mama forever. I feel confident, competent, and relieved to be able to do this. Sr. Noor has been an absolute god-sent for me. I still cannot believe I found this, Alhamdulillah.
Yasmin
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Julie Moore
Mothers can transform nations.
Armed with love in our hearts, strength of iman (faith) and complete trust and tawakkul in Allah(swt), we get to rise up each day and strive!
I invite you to join the movement.
Be a leader.